RESPECT FOR THE APACHE

Elders
Our Apache elderly people are highly respected. They have earned the right to be known as elderly. The elderly preserve the traditions, culture, values and morals of the Mescalero Apache Tribe. Here are some examples of how an individual should approach the Apache elderly in everyday life. These examples are practiced by the younger generations and middle-aged today on the reservation.

Staring
Do not stare or look at people with direct eye contact. This is impolite. It is disrespectful to stare at all generations of our Mescalero Apache people. Pointing is also impolite.

Affection
The Mescalero Apache people show respect for one another in the sense that little affection is expressed. Some Apaches do not mind being hugged and respond positively to appropriate gestures of affection; others might feel uncomfortable. Use good judgment and be sensitive to the signals they give you. Understand that some of our people may not want to be touched. This is not intended as disrespect or prejudice toward you.

This Mescalero Apache cultural and historical information was compiled by Kate Geronimo Hernandez, Inn of the Mountain Gods Resort and Casino. E-mail Kate at kghernandez@imgresort for permission to
reproduce in whole or in part the information contained herein.